Things people ask.
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Will my partner see my answers?
Only the matches. Unmatched answers stay private — to your partner, and to us. The reveal logic runs server-side and only the intersection leaves the database. The architecture is described in detail at /security.
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What if we disagree on the reveal?
Disagreement is the data. The reveal is the start of the conversation, not its conclusion — the point is to put one shared thing in the room, not to score who was right about wanting it.
- 03
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes. Settings → Cancel takes two clicks. There is no retention email. New questions stop appearing the same day. The reveal page stays available — what you said yes to is still yours.
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What if my partner won't pay?
One Premium subscription covers both of you. You subscribe, they take the same questions on the free side, the reveal is shared. We built it this way on purpose — splitting a $9.99 charge is not a conversation we want couples to have.
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Is this couples therapy?
No. We're a quiz that surfaces mutual desires — that is the entire product. We are not therapists, we don't give advice, and we don't replace a clinician. If a question opens something difficult, talking to a real therapist is the right next step.
The longer answers are in /security and /privacy. If you have a question we should answer here, write to hello@bothwant.com.