Give a couple a few hours of honest conversation.
BothWant makes a quiet, considered wedding gift. We deliver on a date you choose, with a note in your own words. We do not include the price.
Three short steps, then we do the rest.
Choose a tier.
Free, Premium, or the Yearly Journal. The recipient can switch tiers later if they want; their gift is the value at the time of purchase, not the specific tier.
Tell us about the recipient.
Their name, the partner’s name, the date they should receive the email, and a short note. We deliver the email at 9am in their local timezone, never on a Monday.
We send a printable card too.
After purchase, you receive a downloadable PDF — set in the same Fraunces and DM Sans you see on this page — to print and hand over in person if you prefer.
Three options — Free, Premium, the Journal.
BothWant Free, gifted
If you’re unsure whether they’re ready, this is the gift to send. They can take the five-question sample and decide.
Sample quiz · Reveal email · No subscription
BothWant Premium, one year
Same price as the personal annual subscription — no separate gift markup.
The full library of 268 questions, the relationship journal, and the monthly check-in. The most-given gift.
All 268 questions · Journal · Monthly check-in · 12 months
The Yearly Journal
A physical hardcover, posted to the recipient’s door. 12 prompts a month, drawn from the question library. No app, no notifications.
Hardcover, A5, 240pp · Posted within 5 working days
Tell us where to send it, and when.
On the occasion of your wedding. With love, from your two friends.
The card downloads as a PDF you can print on standard A6 stock. The price never appears on the card or in the recipient’s email.