Your clients arrive knowing what they want to work on.
BothWant is a quiz couples take privately. By the time they’re sitting on your couch, the conversation has a shape.
Reduce session-one drift.
The first session is mostly about figuring out what the couple is here to talk about. BothWant's reveal log gives you a starting list of mutual yeses — the topics where both partners have already said they want to engage. You start session one with the insight you would normally have at session two.
A vocabulary for the room.
Long-term couples often lack shared language for desire. The 268 questions in the BothWant library are written specifically to give couples words for things they have not had words for. You receive clients who can name what they want — and who have already had the partner-to-partner conversation about whether the want is shared.
Pre-session worksheets, but better.
The traditional pre-session worksheet is filled out by one partner, optimistically, the night before. BothWant requires both partners, surfaces only mutual yeses, and arrives in your inbox before the session. No homework friction, no pre-session negotiation about who is responsible for the assignment.
From your invite link to your first commission cheque.
You get a custom invite link to share with new clients.
Each licensed professional receives a unique URL — bothwant.com/c/your-name — that pre-fills the practitioner field at signup. We do not require your clients to mention you; the link does it.
Both partners take a tier-2 quiz before their first session.
Tier 2 is the 80-question depth-cut, focused on the topics that benefit most from clinical context. We default new client couples to tier 2; you can switch them to tier 1 (40 questions) from your dashboard.
The reveal arrives in your inbox before the session.
A plain HTML email — no PDF attachment, no client portal login, no two-factor flow. The yes-yes intersection is summarized at the top; the unmatched answers, by design, are not in the email.
BothWant pays you a referral commission on any couple that subscribes.
If a client couple of yours later subscribes to BothWant Premium or the Journal, we pay you 15% of revenue for the lifetime of the subscription. Quarterly direct deposit. No invoicing required.
Therapist Plus.
- 50 client invitations per month, with rollover up to 150.
- Access to all 268 questions for your clients (default tier 2; switchable to tier 1 from the dashboard).
- Optional case-note integration with Notion or a private Google Doc, written in plain prose.
- 15% revenue share on any client couple that subscribes to BothWant Premium or the Journal — quarterly direct deposit, no invoicing.
- Direct line to BothWant Editorial for product questions and feature requests; we read every email.
Onboarding five therapists a month, while we tune the product.
The beta period is free for the first six months. We will write to you within 72 hours, by hand.