A Tool Your Clients Will Love
Evidence-informed intimacy exploration for couples in your practice. BothWant gives therapists a structured, private, gamified tool to accelerate the conversations that matter most.
Why Therapists Choose Us
Built With Your Practice in Mind
BothWant isn't a distraction from therapy — it's a tool that extends what happens in session.
Structured Conversation Starter
Gives clients a safe, neutral framework to surface desires they might struggle to verbalize in session. The quiz does the heavy lifting; you guide the processing.
Privacy Your Clients Can Trust
Pseudonymous accounts, end-to-end encryption, mutual-only reveal. Clients can engage honestly without fear that their individual responses are exposed.
Tiered Progression
Three progressive tiers move from safe basics to deeper desires — mirroring the gradual disclosure model used in evidence-based couples therapy.
Insight to Action
The bucket list feature turns therapeutic insights into concrete between-session activities, increasing engagement and giving couples measurable progress.
In Practice
How Therapists Use Both Want
Three integration points that fit naturally into couples therapy workflows.
"Take Tier 1 before our next session"
Assign the quiz as pre-session homework. Couples arrive with concrete data points to discuss, reducing the time spent on surface-level exploration and giving sessions deeper traction.
Review mutual matches together in session
Use match results as a structured entry point into sensitive conversations. Each match is a revealed shared desire — a ready-made topic that both partners have already indicated interest in exploring.
Bucket list completion as a therapy milestone
Track completed bucket list items as measurable therapy milestones. Celebrating completed items reinforces positive behavior patterns and gives couples tangible evidence of relational growth.
Referral Partner Program
Recommend BothWant to couples in your practice and earn 20% of their subscription revenue for as long as they remain subscribers. No cap, no expiry.
We're building a network of therapist partners who believe in structured intimacy exploration. Partners get early access to new features, input into question design, and dedicated support.
What's Included
- All 3 quiz tiers (50+ questions)
- Mutual-match reveal system
- Shared bucket list
- AI compatibility insights
- Progress history
- Priority support
20% recurring commission
Paid monthly. No minimum referrals. Cancel anytime.
“I've been recommending BothWant to couples in my practice for six months. It consistently surfaces conversations that would have taken us three or four sessions to reach organically. Clients come in energized by what they discovered. The privacy model is exactly what my clients need to feel safe enough to be honest.”
Dr. Dana Mitchell
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
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