How to Use Both Want
Your step-by-step guide to discovering what you both want
Create Your Account
Getting started takes less than two minutes. Sign up with your email address or Google account, verify that you're 18 or older, and set up your profile. You'll choose your gender, orientation, and relationship type so the quiz experience is tailored to you from the start.
- Sign up with email or Google
- Verify you're 18+ (required for all users)
- Set your gender, orientation, and relationship type
- Your profile is private by default
Invite Your Partner
Both Want is built for two. Once your account is ready, create a partnership and share your unique invite code or QR code with your partner. They sign up from their own account and enter the code to link up. Your accounts remain completely separate — you each have your own login, your own answers, your own privacy.
- Create a partnership from the Partner page
- Share your invite code or scan a QR code
- Your partner joins from their own account
- Accounts are separate — full individual privacy
Take the Quiz
Answer questions honestly across 3 progressive tiers. Tier 1 covers the Basics — communication, romance, and comfort zones. Tier 2 dives into Desires & Fantasies. Tier 3 explores Kinks & Boundaries. Here's the key: your responses are 100% private until both of you have completed the quiz. Tiers unlock progressively as you go.
- Tier 1: Basics (25 questions)
- Tier 2: Desires & Fantasies (55 questions)
- Tier 3: Kinks & Boundaries (55 questions)
- Your answers stay private until both partners finish
- Tiers unlock progressively — complete 80% to advance
Discover Your Matches
Once you've both completed the quiz, the algorithm compares your answers. A "Both Want" result means you both said yes or maybe to the same thing. View your Desire Map — a radar chart showing visual compatibility across 7 categories. Dive into category breakdowns to see exactly where you align.
- "Both Want" = you both said yes or maybe
- Mismatches are never revealed — total privacy
- Desire Map radar chart for visual compatibility
- Category breakdowns with detailed match results
Explore Together
Matching is just the beginning. Add your favorite matches to a shared Bucket List and start checking them off together. Try 30-day Challenges designed to deepen your connection. Play Would You Rather & Dare games for spontaneous fun. Write in your Shared Journal to reflect on experiences. Track your journey with Achievements.
- Bucket List — save and track shared desires
- 30-day Challenges — guided exploration together
- Would You Rather & Dare — playful games
- Shared Journal — reflect and connect
- Achievements — celebrate your progress
Go Premium
The free tier includes Tier 1 quiz questions and basic features — enough to get started. Premium unlocks the full experience: all 3 tiers (135 questions), AI-powered insights, unlimited journal entries, all challenge packs, community features, and 20% off expansion packs. One subscription covers most couple benefits.
- Free: Tier 1 quiz + basic match results
- Premium: All 135 questions across 3 tiers
- AI insights, unlimited journal, all challenges
- $4.99/month or $49.99/year (save 17%)
- Expansion packs at 20% off for Premium members
Ready to discover what you both want?
Create your free account and start exploring together.