Your Privacy Is Sacred
An intimacy app only works if you trust it completely. We built BothWant from the ground up so that your most private thoughts are protected by architecture — not just promises.
Security Model
How We Protect You
Four pillars that keep your intimate data yours — and only yours.
Mutual-Only Reveal
Your answers are never shown to your partner unless you BOTH said yes or maybe. Individual responses stay private forever.
Encrypted Storage
All data is encrypted at rest and in transit using AES-256 and TLS 1.3 — the same standards used by financial institutions.
Zero Third-Party Sharing
We never sell, share, or monetize your intimate data. Period. No advertisers. No data brokers. No exceptions.
Instant Data Deletion
Delete your account and every piece of data is permanently erased within 24 hours. No backups retained. No questions asked.
Data Transparency
What We Store vs What We Don't
No surprises. Here's exactly what exists and what doesn't on our servers.
We Store
- Encrypted quiz responses (never readable by our team)
- Compatibility scores (aggregate, not individual answers)
- Account email address
- Pseudonymous username you choose
We NEVER Store
- Real names — pseudonyms only, always
- IP addresses or device fingerprints
- Browsing history or behavioral tracking
- Specific answer details in analytics
- Payment details (handled by Stripe, never us)
Our Commitment
A Personal Promise
“I built BothWant because I believe intimacy thrives when people feel safe. The moment a single user's private answer is exposed without consent, this product fails its entire purpose.
That's why privacy isn't a feature here — it's the architecture. Our matching logic runs server-side in an isolated environment. No human on our team can query your individual quiz responses. Not me. Not anyone.
If we ever change our data practices, you will know before it happens. You have my word.”
Alex Kim
Founder, BothWant