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We almost left this off. The reason it stays: a Sunday-morning ritual is the most underrated couple-care intervention we know. The single act of one partner making coffee for the other, slowly, on purpose, is itself a relationship practice.
“A Sunday ritual is a relationship intervention.”
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“Get the phones out of the bedroom.”
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Desire is not a seasoning.
Gamification of vulnerability is a category error.
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Save the money. See a therapist for ten sessions instead.